Evolutionary reasons women have orgasm
Raising children has to be the most laborious task on the planet. Human children take a very long time to walk and talking and hunting for food compared to other animals. Most animals can start moving around independently within a few hours to a few days. But human children walk around in their 10th month of life. And they won't be able to master walking until they are 18 months old.
But that is a sacrifice that we must adapt to as a species. Humans are far more intelligent than all the animals. The reason for our slow physical development is due to our brains.
But raising children is taxing for humans. Many people believe that is why human beings developed a strong sexual link with their bodies and their brains. There's no way humanity could have lived on if there wasn't some kind of reward system rewarding us for engaging in sex.
Not to mention, orgasming is extremely rewarding all by itself. It's a powerful sexual state. Science has already determined why men have orgasms. So now it is time to determine why women have orgasms.
The evolutionary need for the female orgasm
After decades of searching, maybe not decades, scientists are looking for a reason for the female orgasm.
The Female orgasm has always been an interesting and divisive topic. In the 1920s, they did not believe that women could have orgasms. They believed that the female orgasm was a myth. In the 1960s, women stopped listening to foolish doctors who didn't believe women and their pain and struggles in their body. They explored their sexualities how they wanted, and they prove that the female orgasm very much exists.
Women can have orgasms when they're not ovulating and fertile for impregnation. And they can also have multiple types of orgasms. According to a very wide study containing hundreds of thousands of women, most women have a much better chance of having a clitoral orgasm than an intervaginal orgasm.
So why do women have orgasms? Well, they were two scientists who now believe that the orgasm was once necessary and important for impregnation. If a woman did not have an orgasm during sexual intercourse, then it will be extremely difficult to impossible for her to become pregnant. The same scientists say that ovulation and orgasm were once deeply connected to one another.
If a woman is not sexually stimulated to the point of orgasm, she would not have been able to ovulate and have an egg ready for any sperm that was deposited inside of her vagina by her male partner. But the connection between orgasm and ovulation was relevant hundreds of thousands to millions of years ago, back when we were Neanderthals. The human body has developed beyond the ovulation orgasm connection, but the ability to have an orgasm remained.
The same chemicals that are released when a woman has an orgasm or similar animal hormones that release in their body to trigger ovulation and get ready for fertilization.
Because of this Theory, fertility scientists are looking into IVF patterns and hormones. Would in vitro fertilization be successful on a regular basis in a woman's body if she has an orgasm right before she's implanted with the eggs?
If the clitoris is outside of the vagina, then how were past human, Neanderthal, and ancestor species stimulated into orgasm?
Now this is the kicker! Scientists are currently considering the position of the vagina and the clitoris. Perhaps they will find evidence that the clitoris used to be located inside of the vagina. This would absolutely improve stimulation through vaginal sex.
If the clitoris was inside of the vagina, then past female ancestors would have had more orgasms when they were penetrated through their male partners. Because the female orgasm and ovulation begin to disconnect from one another in the evolutionary process, the shape of the vagina and vulva and clitoris is likely to have changed over time. The clitoris, no longer critical for ovulation, moved northward upward beyond the urethra
Can having strong orgasms make a woman more fertile?
We have all read those stories online of a couple that could not get pregnant. The husband leaves the infertile woman and finds a younger woman to make the family with. Then, the infertile woman finds a boyfriend who really loves her and is amazing in bed. The new boyfriend gives her intense orgasms, and she has the best sexual experiences of your life. Suddenly, she's pregnant! Her ex-husband is absolutely shocked and wants to try for a baby with his ex-wife again. But she is far too happy with her new pregnancy and her sexy boyfriend to entertain his silly ideas.
As much as we would like to believe that it is completely the husband's fault for not providing his wife with amazing orgasms, there is no connection between orgasms and improved fertility. Now, the stress of not having a baby and disappointing a partner could make it more difficult for the woman to conceive.
Stress is always a major issue for the human body. Also, there are plenty of stories like this online, so it is safe to believe that two people's bodies just don't work with one another. Perhaps the men and the women are completely fertile; they just become infertile with each other.
Scientists have not found a link between lowered fertility and orgasms. So, a woman can have as many orgasms as she wants because science says she does not become infertile or reduce her chances of fertility with an increased number of orgasms.
At one time, fertility scientists believed that female orgasms improved human fertility. But they had it all wrong. The reason why they believe that was because they believed that women's vaginas would vacuum up the sperm when she had an orgasm.
Yes, that's right. Doctors in the 1950s, 60s, and 70s used to believe that the vagina acted as a vacuum. I would like all of their medical licenses pulled right now.
So far, female orgasms are not tied to fertility or ovulation. As we discussed above, they disconnected from each other through the evolutionary process. The clitoris also drifted upwards outside of the vagina.
What are the types of orgasms?
Experimenting with your orgasms is the best way to learn about your body and what makes you feel good. A small percentage of women actually have orgasms through direct vaginal stimulation via penetration.
These are the women that are ruining it for the rest of us. Our husbands and boyfriends need to learn that there are more parts of a woman's body that can make her orgasm. Don't just shove your baby maker into our Cave of Wonders and expect us to have an orgasm within a couple of minutes. The average woman needs to have more stimulation on the other parts of her body, and she needs plenty of warmup time.
Here are four of the most important orgasms that a woman can have. She just needs to find her body's way of producing them.
- Clitoral orgasm – The clitoris is located high on the woman's vulva. Direct stimulation of the clitoris is painful, so it is best to rub the areas around the clitoris. You should also use lubricant to make the vulva more slippery and sensitive.
- Vaginal orgasms - although it may be harder for an average woman to achieve a vaginal orgasm, she should definitely try to stimulate herself to do so. A vaginal orgasm is known as a full body orgasm, and they can feel it from head to toe. A male and female partner can change positions to make it easier to stimulate a woman's vaginal orgasm spot.
- The Exercising orgasm - not as intense as a clitoral or vaginal orgasm, but still stimulating nonetheless, the exercise orgasm is triggered by pleasurable exercise and a fast heart rate.
- The anal orgasm - there are quite a few women who enjoy the anal orgasm and they were not tricked into anal sex by their partner. Some women have their anal relation spot just a few inches from the beginning of their anus.
So how should you change your sexual habits and abilities based on all this information?
If you are a woman, you need to start putting your orgasms first. So many women out there in the sexual dating world disregard their orgasm because they do not want to to hurt their partners feelings. Some women take so long to have an orgasm, they feel like it is ruining the sexual experience.
It takes way too long for a woman to have an orgasm when they don't know the proper technique, or they are uncomfortable with their own bodies. But getting strong orgasms on a regular basis can do wonders for a woman's Mental Health.
Just think of it this way, men would never ever give up their orgasms for any reason whatsoever. So, it is time for women to start acting like their orgasm matters, because they do.
Also, if you do not have a boyfriend or husband already girlfriend, then need to buy yourself some kind of sexual toy. There's no shame in masturbating and there's definitely no shame in using a sex toy. Sex toys actually be quite fun, and you will learn a lot about your sexual habits when you start using sex toys.
Women everywhere need to stop telling their husbands that they had an orgasm when they did not have one. I know you were trying to spare your partner's feelings. But this is a bad idea.
First of all, your sexual partner believes that they did a good job and made you have an orgasm when they did not. Because you faked an orgasm, they never truly learn how to please you. So as long as you keep making orgasms, there is no way they're going to learn how to please you in the future. If you have been faking your orgasms, come it's time to your partner down and tell them that you're not sexually satisfied in bed.
At first, they will feel a little betrayed because they thought they were pleasuring you, but an excellent partner will understand, and they will try harder and work with your body. The next time you and your loving sexual partner have sex, plan for a longer sexual session and be ready to direct them around your vagina. You may not have an orgasm during your first sexual session, but at least you are on the road or too many more orgasms in the future.
If they are not a good partner, then they will put the blame on you and say that you were the one with the problem. If your partner reacts this way, kick them to the curb. There's no way to reconcile with someone who only cares about their orgasms and does not want to prioritize yours. If you have an abusive partner, then do not say anything. You should only say you have been faking orgasms if you are in a safe and comfortable environment. If you tell an abusive person that you have been faking orgasms, they might fly into a rage and hit you.
If you fear your partner's reaction and you don't want to tell them you have been faking orgasms, reach out to the domestic abuse center. They can help you leave your abusive partner.
Conclusion
Somewhere along the line of human's evolutionary history, the female orgasm was directly linked to fertility and improved chances of having a baby. Now, it is no longer linked to fertility, but it is still important part of a woman's sexuality and sexual satisfaction. Women need to start prioritizing their orgasms and expecting them to happen when they have sex with their partner. When women have sex with each other, there's a neat 89% chance that both women will have an orgasm. But when a woman has sex with a man, there is only 9% chance that she will have an orgasm. Since there's nothing different about lesbian and straight bodies, we can only conclude that lesbians work harder in bed and have a better understanding of the female body then men do. Well, it is time we hold men up to the same standard! We need our orgasms!