How to make a woman orgasm
In this full-length guide, we'll show you how to make a woman orgasm. Plus our method improves sexual communication, builds anticipation, and is fun to do for her and you. This guide assumes this woman is your girlfriend or wife and not a one night stand. Making your woman orgasm is a vital sexual skill, and there is no reason why you shouldn't learn how to do it. Making her orgasm is easier than you think, but you will still have to learn some new techniques. If you learn to make your wife or girlfriend orgasm, both of your sex lives will improve, and she will look forward to having sex more often.
So how do I make her orgasm?
The clitoris
Yes, I said the clitoris, not more intense thrusting at a vigorous pace. You need to realize that the clitoris is there, and it is the main reason why many women have orgasms at all. Some can orgasm through penetration, but these women are a minority.
Let's start with the outside of the bedroom.
The first thing you want to do is touch her a lot. A woman's sexuality is more mental than a man's. They often take longer to warm up sexually than men as well. Think of men's arousal as a lightswitch and women's arousal as a pot of water that needs to be boiled.
So in the morning, if you live with her, touch and kiss her getting ready for the day.
If you can't touch her in the morning, then send her a few texts about missing her and how you can wait to see her tonight. Then you can slowly text her more intimate texts until you start sending lewd texts that stir up here sexual desire.
Keep this light sexual energy going by texting her lewd messages about how much fun you two will have together tonight. Keep her interests high You can also send her a nude picture of yourself to spice things up and build anticipation. You might start getting excited yourself. Save it all for tonight.
If she's coming over to your home, make sure it's clean. If you don't have time to clean, show everything you have into a closet so it won't look cluttered.
If you two live together, then tidy the house, even if you both share the housework equally. The less she has to do, the more energy she'll have for sex.
If work has drained her life away that day, and she comes to your home excited and feeling good, then you can now work on stage two, which is the actual sex part.
Now let's get down to business.
Touch her all over her body and don't even think of starting penetrative sex in the first 20 minutes. Keep her close and slowly take off her clothes. After taking off each other's clothes, don't have sex yet. Instead massage all of her body with your hands. Don't just focus on her breasts.
Make sure she is comfortable and spread her legs open, not widely, but enough to give you space to "work" Before you fully go down on her, massage her inner thighs while holding eye contact with her. And only move to oral sex when she is thoroughly excited and asking you to go down on her.
Ask her if you have to, but locating the clitoris is probably the hardest part of pleasuring a woman. Once you find it, it's time to get to work. Puffs of air from your mouth, soft rubs from your tongue, and a gentle massage with your fingers can build stimulation. Use them slowly, do not go too fast, or she'll become too sensitive, and you'll miss your chance to give her a clitoral orgasm.
And if she tells you to keep doing what you're doing, DON'T CHANGE WHAT YOU'RE DOING. Stay with motion that is exciting her. Keep going until you hear her orgasm. It could be a yell and grunts, but you'll know. There's no faking this orgasm. Don't stop stimulating her the second she starts orgasming. Just go slower and softer to drag out her orgasm and make it even longer. Once she's finished with her orgasms, then you can start your fun time with penetrative sex.
Toys you can also use on her in bed.
A clitoral stimulator
The newest sex toy designed for a woman's pleasure, it can send her to higher sexual heights and make her orgasms stronger. They are small sex toys that specialize in stimulating the clitoris with vibrations or rubbing movements. Don't feel like you're inadequate if your woman has to use a stimulator. You can control the toy and pleasure her using it as a tool.
Stimulating lubricant
On the sex toy market, there are many types of lubricants out there that enhance sexual stimulation and make her feel more sensitive. These lubricants are great for when you're tight on time, and you both want to quickie before work starts. Many women report that in no more than 5 minutes, the lubricant makes their clitoris and vulva much more sensitive. You don't have to use lubricant with a sex toy, and it can be used by itself. And the man can even rub it on the woman, for a more intimate time together.
In conclusion
Always make sure that sex with you is a great and enjoyable experience that will keep women coming back for more. Use your finger, tongues, sex toys, and invigorating lubricants on the women you sleep with to give her different types of orgasms. More reliable, more intense orgasms are something to build up to, but it will be worth it when she's screaming your name. Many men don't try this hard to pleasure a woman and go straight for penetrative sex with little cuddling and touching. Don't make your dates feel like objects to place your pick in.
