Most popular sex fetishes in 2020
An abnormally strong interest in a nonsexual or sexual activity or thing is what is known as a fetish. And finishes have been around just as long as humans themselves. It is not yet known how a fetish fully forms in the mind of a person. It is an extreme fixation. It was once tough to find fetish materials, and people just had to make their own. But with the rise of the web, people who once thought they were the only person with a fetish can now congregate with other fetishizers. They are free to trade stories and trade materials like pictures and videos, all based around their sexual obsession. There are thousands of fetishes, and anything can be fetishized if a person is fixated enough. While we don't have time to talk about all the fetishes in this article, we will talk about the top fetishes in 2020.
Anal
There is a lot of anal porn out there on the internet. Anal porn has been around for a very long time. And because of its history, sexual acts, including the anus, are more popular now. But those who have an anal fetish can almost only do just anal sex. They don't have a need for vaginal sex. You find this fetish more with heterosexual men than gay men, as heterosexual men have the option of their partner's vagina. Also, those who have anal fetish don't want their anus involved. They want to have sex with their partners. But having too much anal sex can be detrimental to their partner as the human body wasn't built to take in anything from that orifice.
Feet
You may have seen this one coming, as foot fetishes are a popular joke in the media. The rise of the foot fetish has made its way into TV shows, radio shows, movies, and magazines. The jokes make fetishes look so ridiculous; people don't believe anyone would be into feet. But foot fetishes are real. There are entire spaces of the internet dedicated to their love and attraction to feet. Some people even go to Instagram and ask their favorite Instagrammers for pictures of their feet. On YouTube, you can find nonsexual videos of feet rubbing together, applying lotion, and walking through sand or grass and wearing socks. Some of these foot fetishers also love the smell of feet and try to find women to rub their feet on them.
Voyeurism
When you see two people having sex, you're supposed to walk away and stop watching. People who are voyeurs can't do that. Voyeurs enjoy watching people having sex. There are two types of voyeurs; the first type of voyeur hides in secret and watches sexual encounters take place. They don't want anyone to know that they're there. The second type of voyeur finds couples who like to be viewed. With the couple's permission, they sit and watch the couple go at each other. Some sex experts argue that watching porn itself is a form of voyeurism.
Edging
If you thought that orgasming was the best part of sex, then you are not into edging. Edging is when you get as close to having an orgasm as possible, and then you stop stimulating yourself. You wait for a small period, like 30 seconds to 5 minutes, and then you begin to stimulate yourself again. It sounds like torture, but the people who practice edging love it. The person who is stimulated is the submissive, and the person doing the stimulation is the dominant. Edging has two significant effects on the body. The first effect is that it creates stronger and more intense orgasms, the more prolonged the orgasm is delayed. The second effect takes longer to see. People who ejaculate too soon report that edging helps them last longer in bed.
Rope bondage
Also known as Japanese bondage porn, rope bondage is when a person is tied up, by either their hands or their feet or their whole body. Sometimes they are tied to poles, beds, other furniture, or tied to their partner. This fetish is about restricting movement. This is not a fetish a person can do with someone they don't know very well. If their partner disrespects the safe word, the person who is tied up can be severely hurt. Some people even end up in the hospital.
BDSM
The basics of BDSM are simple: instead of using each other as equals, there is a dominant person and a submissive person. The dominant person controls the sexual situations, and the submissive person reacts to the dominant person's commands. BDSM relies on trust, and many couples who engage have several talks about limits before they even begin. You can participate in BDSM and not have a BDSM fetish. Those who have a BDSM fetish need a dynamic in the bedroom; a submissive and dominant person needs to exist. They are far less interested in sex if sex is on equal terms.
Filming fetish
Filming yourself masturbating or having sex with someone is becoming more common nowadays. But those who fetishize filming themselves take it to another level. They love being filmed, and they cannot get off unless there is a camera in the room. They film all their sexual activities with or without their partner. Some people create a credits scene like a movie.
This fetish can be illegal if the person filming the sexual acts does not inform the other person that they are being filmed.
In conclusion
There are different kinds of fetishes. Fetishes and fantasies are very different. A sex fantasy is a scenario that you imagine and may even enjoy occasionally. A fetish is a sexual fixation so strong that a person cannot become aroused without engaging in it. Some fetishes are safe enough to do with any person you're with. And then some fetishes should not be practiced with strangers. Every time you engage in your fetish, you need to practice safety and precaution. If you are with someone who has a fetish and you don't want to fulfill it, you don't have to. And if you're someone with a fetish and you can sense it is taking over your entire sex life, then you can enroll in sex therapy and get help.