French Love: do women like it?
France has always been the cultural hub for art, fashion, cuisine, and architecture. But you know what else the French are known for? Their sexuality. French people are better than making love because they understand the human need appetite for sex. Therefore, they are known to be highly erotic, especially French women. French women are notorious for being fun-loving, carefree, and confident – particularly in bed. This is why men in France tried unique and creative ways to make their women feel loved.
One of the most famous ways French men please their women is through French love. Now you must be thinking: We've all heard about the French kiss, but what the hell is French love?
What Is French Love?
French sounds so romantic and dreamy. But it's something better, passionate, and sexy.
French love is an informal term for oragenitalism. Oragenitalism includes all forms of oral-genital sex, like sixty-nine, fellatio, and cunnilingus. So, in simple terms, French love means all kinds of oral sex. And for those who don't know what oral sex is, it involves sexual practices where one stimulates their partner's genitalia through their mouth. So basically, it includes blowjobs, eating out, and sixty-nine.
You might not believe this, but oral sex or French love has existed for centuries. It has been depicted in ancient Greek culture along with many other older cultures. So, in all fairness, French love was not really invented by the people of France. Then why is it attributed to French people? Because French men know no bounds in bed. Nothing is taboo for them. Their goal is pleasure and satisfaction. So, oral sex is a crucial and indispensable part of their sex routine. Thus, over time, oral sex started to be known as French love.
History Of French Love
As stated earlier, French love goes back to ancient Greece. The Greeks believed that kissing the genitals was more pleasant and romantic. There has also been evidence of oral sex from classic Roman and Peru scriptures. Then later, from 1800 to the 1900s, oral sex became a part of normal sexual practices among the French. Then, in the 20th century, fine art and cinema started putting oral sex into mainstream media. Movies like The Godfather set the trend for oral sex scenes in movies. Today, oral sex has become a crucial part of sex and foreplay. Both men and women enjoy it and want it. According to the stats, over 85% of sexually active adults practice oral sex.
Types Of French Love
French love is the ultimate form of oral gratification. Oral sex is a powerful tool to get in the mood and evoke erotic sensations. It instantly makes any man hard and gets vaginal secretions flowing in women to get the vagina nice and wet.
There are two main types of French love fellatio and cunnilingus. Both fellatio and cunnilingus are usually incorporated into foreplay before intercourse. However, not only boost arousal but can also be performed on their own to reach climax.
- Fellatio: This is basically a blowjob. This sexual act involves satisfying the male penis with your mouth. It involves sucking, licking, and everything else you can with your mouth to make that cock hard and cum.
- Cunnilingus: Cunnilingus, in simple terms, is known as eating out or going down on a woman. It involves stimulating the female sex organs like the labia, clitoris, and vagina using your mouth.
Nowadays, another oral sexual activity has also been added to French love:
- Anilingus: Although the anus is not genital, it can also be stimulated for sexual pleasure. So, pleasing the anus or butthole with the mouth is anilingus.
- Sixty-nine French Love: Sixty-Nine takes French love to another level. 69 is a sex position in which one partner lies down, and the other one lowers their genitals to the partner's face while bringing their face close to the other partner's genitals. Being in this position allows sexual partners to perform French love on each other at the same time.
French Love As Foreplay
Foreplay plays a very important role in a healthy sex routine. Foreplay includes different sexual activities before intercourse. These activities create feelings of excitement and make you feel sexually aroused. Let's face it; the act of sex itself hardly lasts a few minutes. So, if you really want to make your man last longer in bed, indulge in some sexy foreplay. It boosts intimacy and emotional connection between sexual partners.
One of the best foreplay activities is French love. Nearly all porn videos always show the girl sucking the guy's giant cock before sex. Similarly, in female-centric porn, you will always see the man eating out the woman. It looks hot and steamy on screen, but it is 100% better when you experience it yourself. So, if you want to spice up your sex life, add some oral sex to the menu!
Do Women Like French Love?
For women, oral is a more pleasurable and intimate experience. Most women don't orgasm from penetration, but French love can make any woman reach the big O.
So naturally, women like French love. Research shows that women enjoy French love (oral sex) more than other sexual activities. According to a study, over 95% of women like oral sex.
So, men are not the only ones who want head. Wanting oral sex is becoming extremely popular among women too. Not only that, but many women also enjoy performing French love on their partners because it makes them feel sexy and empowered.
However, many women also feel insecure when it comes to French love. It brings out issues related to body image, hygiene, trust, and intimacy.
Why Do Women Like French Love?
French love or oral sex for women is more pleasurable because it gets the job done. 70% of women only orgasm through clitoral stimulation, oral sex, and rubbing or vibrators. So, for the majority of women, orgasm through penetration is not possible. This is why many women French love as it arouses them and helps them reach climax.
Moreover, French love is also more enticing. Imagine the warm, soft tongue licking and flicking over your delicate parts. The saliva also acts as a natural lubricant which makes women wetter. This makes the clit and the rest of the genital area feel engorged and sensitive. This makes the overall sexual experience more enjoyable for women.
What Type Of Women Enjoy French Love?
Most women like oral sex, but women with good self-esteem enjoy it more. Women who view their bodies, especially their genitals, positively like French love and sex more than those who don't. So, women with greater self-awareness, sexual openness, assertiveness, and confidence desire French love more.
Some Things To Keep In Mind
French love can be quite a thrilling and amazing feeling. Here are some things to keep in mind before giving or receiving French love:
- Keep It Safe
Remember: Safety comes first when it comes to any sexual activity. You can pick many different STIs (sexually transmitted diseases) from French love. You are at risk of common STIs like herpes, HPVs, syphilis, and Chlamydia if you perform or receive oral sex. So, it is important to maintain good hygiene down there and practice safe sex using condoms, femidoms, and dental dams.
- Keep It Clean
Hygiene for oral sex is crucial. If you are not clean down there, it will instantly turn off your partner. So, make sure you take regular showers and clean your inner thighs. Vagina cleans itself, so you don't need to put random harsh products don't there. However, for men, please wash your intimate areas thoroughly as they tend to get sweaty and stinky easily. Furthermore, you don't have to have bald genitals but do trim those bushes!
- Keep It Gentle
Genitals are super sensitive. Be gentle and patient when performing oral sex on your partner. Don't drag your teeth across the skin or be too rough with the tongue. Also, don't bite! Men often assume that sucking too hard on the clit will send your partner to the moon, but no. The clitoris is very delicate, and even light suckling will turn on your partner insanely. So, no need to get too eager, wild, and rough - unless your partner is into it.
- Communicate
Communication is the key to a healthy sexual relationship. Always talk and ask questions. Get feedback from your partner. Knowing how they feel and what they like the most is important. Don't start doing what you think might work. Try different things, and then continue doing what your partner enjoys. So, always ask your partner to guide you along and keep telling you what they want more of.
Tips To Perform French Love On Women?
- Take Your Time: Men are turned on instantly, like a light switch. But women need to be turned on. You need to get her mind engaged and give her the time to get into the mood. So, when you're performing oral sex, be patient and sensual and take your time arousing her.
- Change it up: Often, we get lazy and do the same thing. Oral sex can be fun and experimental too. Change up your technique every now and then, and keep her guessing what you will do next.
- Talk dirty: Yes, it’s hard to talk when your mouth is on your partner's genitals. But dirty talking combined with oral stimulation will blow your partner’s mind. It will make them horny and make it easier to orgasm.
How To Protect Yourself During French Love?
We already mentioned that oral sex could lead to different STIs and venereal diseases. Let's take a closer look at how you and your partner can safely indulge in French love:
- Hygiene
You don't need to be in direct semen, with semen, to get STIs. Other fluids and secretions released from the mouth, vagina, or penis can also make you sick because they contain pathogens. So, it is important to make sure you and your partner maintain good genital and oral hygiene.
- Sexual Partners
The only way to be 199% from STIs is by abstaining from sex. While that is impossible, you must limit the number of sexual partners. Limiting your number of sexual partners will significantly reduce the risk of sexually transmitted diseases. However, it's fine if you're married or in a long-term relationship.
- Protection
Condoms are super important when it comes to sex. They don't only save from unplanned pregnancies but also provide protection against STIs. So, wearing a condom will keep your penis safe from all nasty bacteria and viruses that may transfer from your partner's mouth or genitals.
- Washing Up
Oral sex or French love does not result in a pregnancy as there is no vaginal penetration involved. If your partner ejaculates in your mouth, you can either swallow or spit the semen. However, the semen does remain in the penis canals, so if you have to indulge in intercourse after the prelude blowjob, always pee and wash up first. However, you don’t need to if you use a condom.
Wrapping Up
People have always been fascinated with France and French culture. Recently, one of the top Netflix shows, Emily In Paris, has been helping the world understand modern-day French culture and aesthetics. One of the show's main highlights is how the French take so much pride in owning their sexuality. They love pleasing themselves and don’t mind casual sex. French people are known for being open and passionate about sex. They are the flag barriers of French kiss and French love, aka oral sex.
French love has become an integral part of people’s sex lives today. Both men and women enjoy it. Nowadays, more and more people openly accept and communicate their needs for French love. So, if you want to give your partner the best toe-curling orgasm, it’s time to go down on her!