Do not disrespect women
In the 21st century, women are more empowered than they've ever been. But there are still strides that we need to achieve for true equality. One area that women must learn to control is their sexuality and how society views them as sexual creatures. For at least 100 years before the sexual revolution in the 60s, women were not known to be sexual beings. Sex was viewed as an activity a man did to a woman. Even as recently as the 70s, women themselves believed that they could achieve orgasm through vaginal sex, and if they didn't, there was something wrong with them. It took a determined woman doctor to write a book to get them to realize that the clitoris matters. Today oh, we are going to talk about the many issues women face regarding their sexual role in society.
Women are not porn
Porn is in our culture now and is not going away. With more and more porn being consumed by men, women are expected to live up to pornstar standards of sex. There are countless stories of women whose boyfriends and husbands treat them like the women in their pork videos. Their partners spit on them, slap them, choke them, and grab their heads to force them to give blowjobs. Some men even engage in anal sex with them without their consent. These are all acts that are very common in porn. Studies have shown that the more porn is consumed, the more distorted the porn watches view of sex becomes.
Understand boundaries
New Wave feminism may have lifted some sexual sigma from women, but unfortunately, it brought along a bad side effect. Society is now a bit more accepting of women and their sexual needs, but there is a new pressure now; the pressure to be sexual and to be open to anything. Using the current climate of today's sex culture, women are pressured to perform degrading acts, all hidden under the guise of being open-minded. Those women who do not want to perform games that relax are accosted by their partners. Their male partners tell them that they need to be more open and not kink shame. Women cannot and should not be forced to perform porn level sexual acts in the name of their partner's kink. Every person has their boundaries. Even if a woman flies the flag of open-mindedness in sex, being shamed into performing acts is disgusting, and a classic predator move.
Sex is over after the man comes
Even in this day and age, when there are thousands of educational materials regarding sex and satisfying women, women's needs are not met. Even in our media, as in television and movies, the sex scene is usually over after the man orgasms. One simple Google search will show that men become angry at their girlfriends or wives if they didn't orgasm through vaginal sex. But studies show that over 70% of women cannot orgasm in that way. It is believed that these same men ask for blowjobs butt do not reciprocate with oral sex for her. It is ingrained in stereotypical masculinity that a woman should orgasms from sex with him, so you would think men give women more oral stimulation. But, in that same vein of masculinity, men believe that her orgasm should come from vaginal sex. Attitudes like this cannot be wiped out with a single book or informative video. It must be educated out with time and patience.
Ask BEFORE you try something
A partner's body should never be taken advantage of or expected to perform on demand. That's not sex. Thats rape. You have to respect your sexual partner. One of the biggest ways women are not respected during sex is when their partner decode to performing a new sex act without their permission or letting them know ahead of time. This is also another effect of watching too much porn. Men who watch too much porn believe that what they see on videos, they should also see in real life. Fundoplication is the main reason why women report their male partners accidentally performing anal sex on them or calling them abusive names. While anal sex and name-calling are activities that two people can do together and enjoy, they need to talk about it first. Boundaries and limits must be put in place to ensure each person enjoys themselves and doesn't get hurt. When do male Partners don't discuss a sexual act with their women and surprise them with it during sex, they are saying their woman's opinion is not needed. It also shows that the men believe a woman's body is theirs to manipulate and not hers to control.
Different women, different needs
Men need to understand that every woman is not the same, and the exact same technique that works for one woman will not work for another. We all have differences in our bodies and how it reacts to stimulation. Women online complain about their boyfriends comparing them to past girlfriends. Their male partners say, "This used to work for her, then why doesn't it work for you?" And most women do not orgasm from vaginal sex alone. But many men refuse to accept this truth. And many women fake orgasms because it's much easier than arguing. This is not equality in sex. If men want to engage in sex with women, they must treat her as an individual with their own needs. And if they cannot, they have no business being around her.
In conclusion
The many problems discussed in this article show just how much women have to put up with in order to even have sex. In order to change these views, we must have proper sexual education in schools, proper sexual conversations in college, and safe spaces to engage in discussion and find refuge. Also, women must stand up for themselves and refuse to sleep with men to don’t meet their needs.Hopefully, by the next decade, we won't see as many men with these types of thoughts. Women are sexual beings and deserve sexual equality.
