The female orgasm: it’s real and important!

The sexual revolution of the 1960s forever changed how dating, sex, and marriage are perceived and socially regulated in the United States. Birth control, along with women's empowerment, also gave women their sexuality back. It has been a long fight, and much of society is still engaging in slit shaming and killing each other terrible sexual mints, but things are much better than they once were. Part of the reason society changed its attitudes in sexuality and relationships is because of education. No longer are we using holy books to teach young people about sexual education, but peer-reviewed scientific studies by accredited scientists and sex therapists. One of the biggest changes society underwent is how the female orgasm is presented in mainstream society. We all have come a long way from thinking that men had sex with women, and women give men sex, but they don't want it. Women have their sex drive, and they want to have orgasms. So let's learn about the female orgasm.

So what exactly happens when a woman has an orgasm?

So before we begin to explore the many different topics about the female orgasm, let cover exactly what happens during an orgasm. The female orgasm is an all-encompassing term for an orgasm that happens when a woman is sexually stimulated past a certain point. During the most intense part of the orgasm, the climax, the muscles in the pelvic region release and contract rhythmically And then subside when the orgasm is over.

There are several spots on the female body where a woman can be stimulated sexually until her genitals spasm and she orgasms. According to neuroscientists, when a woman has an orgasm, her brain is flooded with oxytocin. As you may know, oxytocin is the love chemical that causes people to bond with other human beings. After she achieves her orgasm, her body then relaxes, and she can then relax in bed and recuperate for energy. Many women find it after a strong orgasm, the legs feel like jelly, and they are unable to walk for a while. This is because when a woman has an orgasm, she tends to spend a few minutes before her orgasm with all of her muscles around her lower body and legs tightened up. So when she finally can relax, her lower body feels limp and exhausted.

For a while, the female orgasm was thought to be unimportant to sex. There are several different types of female orgasms, and each one has its own method to achieve completion. So far, there are at least six types of female orgasms:

• A clitoral orgasm
• A vaginal orgasm
• The G-Spot orgasm
• A cervical orgasm
• Multi-spot orgasm
• Anal orgasm

Most people have only heard of clitoral and vaginal orgasms.

What about multiple orgasms?

On the internet, it is often said that women should be happy with their genitals because they can have multiple orgasms. But multiple orgasms is not what most women experience whenever they have a sexual encounter. And if they are having sex with a terrible partner, some women don't even have a single orgasm. But are all women capable of having multiple orgasms? The answer is yes, theoretically. Women can have multiple orgasms, but after the first orgasm, they may need a different strategy to have a second one. And after a woman experiences her first orgasm, her second orgasm won't be as strong as the first.

In stark contrast, men can't have multiple orgasms. Once a man has an orgasm, he will go to a refractory period where the penis is far too sensitive, and it should not be touched. If he or his partner continues to masturbate after he orgasms, the head of his penis will be far too sensitive, and he will be in pain. Some men cannot have multiple orgasms within a single session. If they want to have more than one orgasm in a day, they can always space their orgasms out and have one in the morning, allow their body to recuperate in the afternoon, and then have another one in the night. While men cannot have multiple orgasms, they are far more likely than women to have orgasms.

Three rules of feminine hygiene all women should follow.

During a masturbatory session or a sexual encounter with another person, it is important for people who have a vagina and vulva to practice proper hygiene. People with vaginas are more likely to contract a UTI or a vaginal infection if they use unclean items to masturbate.

1. Make sure your hands and any toys that you use are clean. Men, women, non-binary, and trans people should all be as clean as possible when they are about to engage in a solo session. If they have a partner with them, the partner should also practice proper cleaning techniques and standards. Many sex shops sell special soaps so people can wash their toys, but that is not necessary. All you need is to wash your toys and sexual aids with hot water and dish soap and allow them to dry.
2. When a woman is testing out a lubricant or cream for the first time on their genitals, they should only use a small amount first. A small amount will prevent excessive itching or a rash. Any cream or lubricant should be tested on the outside of a woman's labia, and the amount they should you should only be a small dot.
3. Water is not a good lubricant. While many people have fantasies about having sex under a waterfall, in a cub, in a pool, or in a jacuzzi, this might not be so comfortable and fun as they think it is. Water is simply never a good lubricant when it comes to sex. The lubricant created from the Bartholin and Skene glands around a woman's genitals is not water at all. This substance washes away quickly in the presence of water. A woman will find that she is nowhere near as lubricated as she believes she is if she has been sitting in a pool or a Jacuzzi for a while. If a woman wants to have a comfortable time while she is in water, there are lubricants that will not wash away when a woman is in water.

What if you are stimulating your vulva or another erotic zone and you cannot orgasm?

Because of the sexual revolution in the 1960s, women have been encouraged to seek their pleasure, whether they used tools or a partner. Men are finally realizing that placing their penis into a woman's vagina will not cause her to orgasm instantly. They have to know how to pleasure a woman and how to touch and please her clitoris. While female sexual empowerment has been a positive result, it now brings a new issue. What if there is enough vaginal and clitoral stimulation and the woman is still not able to orgasm?

There are a few reasons why a woman won't be able to orgasm even if they have enough stimulation. The first reason could be that they are not in tune or emotionally attached to their partner. Some women, just like some men, can't have sex on this day as a connection with their partner. Another reason could be that the woman Is suffering from vaginismus, which is a disorder in the pelvic muscle.

Female hysteria and its many medical cures

The medical world has never truly been on the side of women. There are many issues that women face when working with medical staff, such as doctors, nurses, LVNs, therapists, and physical therapists. Numerous studies state that medical staff routinely consider female pain to be exaggerated and they think women are pretending to be more injured than they truly are to get faster medical health or painkillers or because they want extra attention.

At the turn of the century, all the way up to the 1960s, men have complete and total control over their wives. Many women had no choice but to get married and have kids, and rely on their husbands. While many marriages were filled with respect and love for one another, there were just as many marriages that should never have happened in the first place, and it was harmful to at least one party. From the 1850s to the 1950s, many husbands who wanted to take advantage of their authority over their wives had them placed in an asylum or a mental hospital if they requested such treatment from a doctor.

But the wives had nothing wrong with them. They simply were not easily controlled and spoke up for themselves, wanted to have sex more often than their man wanted to perform, or depression. Most of these "symptoms" were because of the pseudo disease called female hysteria. Female hysteria has always been around, even since ancient times. Some of the treatments for this sexist pseudo disease were drugs, isolation, and even a hysterectomy.

One treatment for female hysteria was a vaginal orgasm. But the method used to achieve orgasm was not as enjoyable as we know it by today's standards. A woman will be sent to the doctor, where he would place his fingers inside her and attempt to pleasure her until she achieves an orgasm. And they could be sent to this doctor for weeks of treatments until her husband has decided that her mood has improved. Because of how long most doctors took to help their patients achieve orgasm, a doctor named Joseph Granville invented the vibrator, which a doctor would then prescribe so women could use it at home and not have to come to the doctor anymore.

Thankfully, accredited psychologists stopped the diagnosis of female hysteria in 1952 and began to actually perform accredited medical and psychological tests on women.

Does the G spot exist? Science says yes, so your boyfriend/husband better find it!

Firstly, you may neet to read what is G spot in real. For the past two decades, a debate has raged on in support and against the existence of the female G-spot. Many people think that it does not exist and the only G-spot is within a man's anus. But one theory says that the G-Spot Is not a separate erogenous zone all on its own. The G-Spot might be an extended part of the clitoris. The G-Spot is located in the vaginal canal. It is not in the anus like it would be for a man. The G-Spot was discovered by a woman named Beverly Whipple. But all women's bodies were not made the same until, for some women, it is very easy to find a stimulating G-spot. But for others, it can be nearly impossible to find. Some women can stimulate their G-spots by placing their fingers into their vaginal canal and making an upwards rubbing motion.

But are there other ways to stimulate a G-spot so women can have a G-spot orgasm? Thanks to today's many modern sex toys, women now have a plethora of options they can use on themselves, or a partner can use on them to experience an all-encompassing stimulating G-spot orgasm. There is even an entire section of toys dedicated solely to the stimulation of the G-Spot. These toys are available not only in brick-and-mortar sex shops but also online.

The best type of vibrators to buy to stimulate the G spot are ones that have a curve to them. Because of the G spot's location, using a straight vibrator won't do the trick. There are also smaller lipstick-sized vibrators any woman can place into her vagina.

Conclusion

Female sexuality and orgasms are being studied more and more than they ever were before. Thankfully, all of this scientific research has revealed important elements in a woman's body and sexuality. During any sexual encounter, a woman's orgasm is just as important as a man's, so they need to find sexual partners who respect their bodies and want to provide them with pleasure. Orgasming can be a great way to blow off some steam, revitalize your day, bond with your partner, or just be a fun way to pass the time. So be sure to explore your body and learn what feels good and what doesn't.