Cowgirl - who dominates in this position?
There are a thousand and one sexual positions that you and your lover can choose from. Whether you guys are acrobats trained in Paris or you like to take it easy for a night in, if you search for a little bit, you'll be able to find a position that's just right for you and him. If you're the type of girl who likes to seek a bit of fun, then you're going to want to try the Cowgirl. Sex in the cowgirl position is just better. Basically, it's more fun, it feels great for you, and if you take off your bra, your man gets a better view of your breasts. So let's talk about the cowgirl position and why you need it in your life.
Why you need to learn Cowgirl
For many women, missionary is not a good position for them to have sex in or achieve orgasm with either. There is no clitoral stimulation, and your legs are not raised or spread to allow for deeper penetration. And it also shows what kind of man you have. There are men out there that are so strict and in masculinity that they cannot have a woman be on top. This is not the type of man you want to build your life with. The kind of man who I have to be macho in every situation well that makes your life easier. You will spend your years making his ego feel better. By using this position on a potential boyfriend, you can see how they fell about being underneath a woman. We call it this the cowgirl test. It may seem strange, but it will save you time and energy in the long run. There are many men who still subscribed to the macho style of life. These are also the same men who will not go down on you cuz we'll ask for a blowjob. You will have to deal with these men the second you decide to get on top.
When you have sex, it should be fun. You two should be open with each other and enjoy each other's company. Don't ever have sex with a man who is critical and doesn't treat you right. It is the year 2020, and equality belongs in the bedroom.
How to do Cowgirl
The first part you need to know about doing the Cowgirl is that you don't sit directly on your man's cock. You actually must lean into a 45-degree angle. Using this leaning angle makes it easier and more comfortable to be penetrated.
Once he is from the inside you, the fun can begin. In the cowgirl position, you find that grinding down on your lover feels so good and empowers you to take sex your own way. After you are in a good position, slowly grind down on your man and start swaying your hips back and forth. If you have been doing your yoga, then you'll be able to control how deep your man is inside of you. Since he is lying under you, you can use your legs to lift yourself a bit off the bed and then side yourself back down again. Watch for his reaction. He is going to love it.
For added fun, bring your legs forward. Do not have them under you. You should kind of look like a frog when you do it. Once your legs are in place, you can use your body weight to rock him back and forth. If you are getting tired of grinding down on your man's cock, you can tell him it's time to take over. He still have a bit of say in the rhythm that you established with you being on top. By thrusting up, he can change your rhythm at any time. If you want to be very naughty, you can take turns with him, switching off and on, and each of your using your own rhythms.
Alternatives: for deeper penetration, you can lay your stomach flat on his stomach and position your hips a little lower. It is more intimate than the classic position, and you'll be able to stretch out your back. Also, your clitoris will be stimulated as you are leaning forward and bouncing up and down. And you can't forget about reverse Cowgirl. You're still on top, and you again can place your legs anywhere, but you have your back turned away from him. This position also allows you to deepen penetration. You can also Lean forward in this position and dip your hips lower. This will feel like interlocking your legs but in the reverse angle. However, this position is not to be used with anal sex, especially if it was going to be your first time engaging in anal sex. With this position, you can sit down too far, and he'll be more now in you than you're comfortable with.
In conclusion
The Cowgirl is a fun way to spice up your Sex life and sex routine. It feels great because it makes your man's member go deeper inside you than the missionary position does. It puts you in control of the rhythm and peace you two will go at. Because it's fun being on top sometimes. If you are the type of girl that is usually at the bottom oh, you can easily take back your power by having sex in the cowgirl position. And as we said earlier in this article oh, the cowgirl test can show you what kind of man your having sex with. Remember in life and in bed you don't want a man to take away your power and be happy keeping it from you. If you read this and realize Cowgirl is not the type of that you liked, feel free to check out our other sexual position guide. You never know what kind of sexual position feels good, so don't be afraid to try and practice! Your man will not mine!
