Sexual life after sixties
Sexual life is an individual matter. Some people get into it later, at around twenties, whereas others try to seek pleasure in contact with the opposite sex in their early teenage years. When teenagers fall in love with each other, they sometimes hold their hands, enjoy being together and talk a lot.
As time goes by, their feeling becomes more and more powerful and they become more and more interested in each other in terms of sexuality. Sometimes they start to have sex against everything and everyone. It is not a big problem as long as minors remember to use protection.
However, it is worse if their attitude towards sex is completely irresponsible. It happens that such couples create permanent relationships and then grow old together.
Mature couples in their forties
People in their forties have already gone through the best years of their youth. They also have some kind of experience when it comes to sex. But also, if they have been a couple for years, they know their tastes and are able to determine their partner's emotional state and sexual needs quite quickly.
During this time, people can also enjoy the so-called "second youth", because usually this is the time when children are already grown up and take care of themselves. And sometimes they already live on their own. Then partners can be more aware of each other.
These are wonderful years, when passion can flourish again, and it is even more mature, because the couple knows each other perfectly and almost no words are needed.
Twenty years after forties
Some people may think that after sixties you are forced to live life of an old man only. Nothing could be further from the truth. As long as none of the partners have problems with having sex, the libido is still there. It is known that the interest in sex is somewhat diminishing comparing to how it was in your teenage years or twenties.
Even after forties sexual drive is still at a high level, but then in your sixties, it slightly decreases, mainly because people begin to experience some ailments and conditions occur that make having sex more difficult. This can be prostate hypertrophy in men or female diseases in women, or even the menopause, which can also cause aversion to men to a considerable extent.
This does not mean, however, that sexual life in your sixties is completely over, or that it is not possible. Much depends on how individuals at that age feel and how they feel about their own sexuality at that time. Some people enjoy affairs or even so called sexcapades. It also happens that partners are ashamed of their bodies, considering them to be defective. Because skin is not that attractive anymore, wrinkles appear around the eyes and on your neck, and some body parts become saggy.
The most important thing, however, is not what they think to themselves then, but whether they are still able to talk to each other honestly. If they can explain their needs to each other and satisfy them, then the sexual sphere of their life is still there. Yes, it can be a bit different, it can be involve more delicate caressing, not the typical sex of horny teenagers, no matter where or how. But even though such couples do happen, even after sixty, especially if people fall in love with each other at this, slightly more mature age. It is worth to know, however, that during this time, they won't be so eager to spend the night in a tent, because they may suffer from rheumatism afterwards.
Instead, partners will choose rather warm and clean bed in a heated apartment. And as far as sexual satisfaction is concerned, it can be greater because of the much greater experience in this field, provided that it has been collected over the years. But partners can also experience some minor technical problems, which can affect men in particular.
Summary
Sexuality is not only about intercourse itself, but also about the thrill of emotions, mutual understanding, care and the ability to discuss each other's needs. And also about fulfilling each other's erotic fantasies as long as it is under mutual consent. And needs can change with age, just like the frequency of intercourses.
